How has your life changed since starting college?
Last Updated: 18.06.2025 02:47

In college, I met many people who were faking behaviors in order to look cool, and they still do. This 'pick me' behavior irritates me the most.
From bothering mom 24/7 to videocalling mom and describing how my day went.
In 12th, I struggled to focus on my studies.I didn’t want to take the science stream but had to and wasn’t doing well. As if it wasn’t enough my father transferred to some other city and I was not happy with it.
Have you ever been forced to dress like a girl?
I witnessed people with no understanding becoming successful simply because they were confident enough to stand on stage and perform.They arrived, performed, and it was finished. Their performance was not that good; it could have been better, yet people applauded as if it were the best.
How has your life changed since starting college?
I’ve become more responsible.
Many people used to believe that I would not be able to do so, but I did.
From eating freshly cooked, hot and healthy food prepared by mom with love and care to eating pg’s carelessly made tasteless food.
I am happy I found them, but the scared half of me always reminds me to be ready for heartbreaks, and I don't expect much.
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From being at home 24*7 to going home for a few days in 2–3 months.
Now, I am living 300km away from my family.I miss them.
I felt frustrated, occasionally venting at my family and used to have panic attacks.
What is the worst emotional pain you ever felt as an adult?
I still have doubts about myself, have a lot to work on my personality and need to work hard. I will keep trying to see positivity around me and I wish you would do the same.
The fact that groups break up after the first year is correct.
In PG, I met 5 other girls from my classroom, and from the start, I kept my expectations low and was sure that I did not fit in with them, so I kept my distance, and my only connection in college was my roommate at that time.She advised me multiple times to hang out with that group. I made it clear to her that it was not right for my well-being to spend time with people with whom I feel uncomfortable.
Who is the most trusted person in your life, and do they have the same trust on you?
My roommate soon understood this and stopped hanging out with them before it was too late.Now I have a trio: myself, my roommate, and one of the five girls-who faced the same situation as us.Our vibes matched.
From fighting with sister on small things to fighting on calls/texting.
Let’s come to the answer.
What’s the worst thing you caught anyone in your family doing?
Backstory-
I found amazing mentors in my professors.
I have huge respect for their knowledge and dedication to teaching.I consider myself lucky to be able to learn from such experts in their respective fields.
There are many students who can’t go home frequently because of issues like long distance, travelling issues etc..I can feel their pain.
Confidence is the key.
Thanks for reading my answer.
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-Hitesha.
Going away from that place was my only wish at that time.I had no exposure to the outside world and I knew if I continued my further studies there, I would gain nothing.
I’ve realized the real value of money.
What is the meanest thing your husband has said to you?
From my daily arguments with dad to missing him.
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For example, many of my collegemates didn’t know what UGC was. The girl who was my senior and was sitting beside me didn’t know that Guide is written by R.K. Narayan. She was going to tick Chetan Bhagat as the answer before I stopped her.
I lacked friends in 12th class,I didn’t understand a single thing those teachers were teaching and used youtube and educational subscriptions for learning.
I have never stayed away from home before this but now I live in a pg with the worst management, manage my own chores, and travel alone.
It will be a year since I started college, so I thought I should share my experience with you.
I met a lot of fake people and learned how to deal with them.
All I meant to say is that if you are fully skilled, know everything, and still have no confidence, You will be considered nothing, but if you have confidence, people will see it as a plus, and this will provide a better opportunity for the future.
From watching news at breakfast- to sharing news on calls
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